well my husband lost his job about 2 weeks ago. we got kicked out of our apartment. his family wouldnt help, but my cousin offered us somewhere to go. so we moved in with her(we use to be really close) well that was a mistake, her husband is extremely controlling and tried to control us, and im an adult who doesnt need supervision and to be told when i need to be home and all that junk. our van got a flat on the way up there and he said oh i got a bunch of those tires ill give ya some, well after 2 weeks he still hadnt given us any and my daughter got sick and needed to go to a doctor, so i called my uncle and he said screw them come over here and live i cant believe you didnt call me first. so we are living here with him, and doing a little better. got the baby to the doctor and she will be fine, man she is so smart, she is almost 5 months and saying: mama, mom, dad, dada, nana, hey, she tries to say shoe but it comes out ohe lol, she has said no, yea, duh, and o. lol. me and my husband are doing pretty good i think, i mean we fight a little more than usual but nothing big yet, and of course i might be pregnant again(AHHHHH)well hope to get some advice or something like words of encouragement.